LOL, Valis!!
Where are you getting your material? My kids were watching Sponge Bob....and Squidword told the same joke!!
Like minds must think alike....
its arrrrrrrrrr rated!.
sincerely,.
district overbeer
LOL, Valis!!
Where are you getting your material? My kids were watching Sponge Bob....and Squidword told the same joke!!
Like minds must think alike....
i've managed to survive 33 years (and a couple of weeks).
what a long strange trip it's been.. in spite of some tell-tale signs of aging (wrinkles around eyes, gray hair, mystified and sometimes terrified by the current youth culture) in some ways i still feel like a little kid who doesn't know anything.
what have you learned since then?
The year I turned 33 was a big turning point for me. That's the year I divorced my JW husband, and turned my back on the whole JW mind controlling grip and took control of my own life. That was my year of independance!
That was four years ago, and I feel like a new person since then. I have a better job, happier lifestyle, I could focus on my children more, and I have learned much more about life in general. I feel very empowered now.
last night, me and my current fiance decided to go out and do some singing at a karaoke bar.
we've both run into my ex-fiance a few times, but i hadn't seen her there in a while.
i figured she finally got fired from the salisbury house close to there.. anyway, we get out of my truck and head toward the door.
Nosferatu,
You come across as if you have some ill feelings toward her, hurt, or at least some internalized anger (e.i. calling her a bitch). Do you think this is true? Why are you happy that you "put a curse on your ex-fiance"? You may feel quite a bit of relief next time you see her if you can just release that resentment towards her. Let it go. No need to put a curse on anybody, really. You would feel a lot better and would move forward so much easier and with much more gratification if you could let go of that hurt. I'm speaking from my own experience, and I am making no judgment call on you....just trying to help :)
Take care,
LD
i decided this needed its own post.
in the late eighties/early nineties i was one of those guys outside the tacoma dome, a subject that came up in at least two recent threads.
at the time i was newly out, and i felt that i needed to make a statment.
I've been to some assemblies there.....and baseball games
VeniceIt's father was invovled in that parking lot scandal....that's the reason he, his wife, and Rachel got out!
how many here believe that we all have a soulmate somewhere in this world that is especially for us, or do you believe that the person we happen to fall in love with becomes our soul mate?
Lew,
I'm really happy for you! I'm glad you found someone to make your heart fly!!!
Maverick,
I also agree with you on timing.....it's everything. Sounds like you and I have played the same "games". I've met some very nice men, but during those times we just weren't emotionally "available" for each other.
I agree with all of your viewpoints. I tend to believe there must be more than one Soul Mate, but only a few who you can really have a life with. In the mean time, I don't plan to sit around and wait for him to knock on my door! I'm enjoying myself!
I'm not a regular poster.....but WELCOME!!
how many here believe that we all have a soulmate somewhere in this world that is especially for us, or do you believe that the person we happen to fall in love with becomes our soul mate?
Heathen,
I believe you can have good sex with a lot of people, just depends on how comfortable and confident you are with yourself. I'm a firm believer of this! That part is easy. But, I'm talking about a person that accepts you for who you are and doesn't try to change you. A soul mate would be someone who understands your point of view without trying to change it. They would be with you on the same level and stand by you, but still allow your independence. They would be your strength where you are weak....
Sphere,
Maybe it is just about a really, really good relationship.
Sheila,
I've read your posts about Thunder....I think that's awesome!! You are very very lucky!!
how many here believe that we all have a soulmate somewhere in this world that is especially for us, or do you believe that the person we happen to fall in love with becomes our soul mate?
Mac,
May I ask why? I'm really curious about other beliefs and thoughts....
how many here believe that we all have a soulmate somewhere in this world that is especially for us, or do you believe that the person we happen to fall in love with becomes our soul mate?
I have been very wrong in the past as well. I think it's best not to look and just let nature take it's course. What will be will be I suppose. I've been told that it just happens when we least expect it. I choose to enjoy my life and let life just take it's course, but I still ponder on the thought of a "soul mate"....
anyone live there or been there?
is it great?
i am going for a week in february for a little r & r and really looking forward to it.
How fun...I'm jealous!!! I've never been to Mexico, but I sure hope to one day. Being a Latina, I should dig into my roots sometime soon.